12/12/2021

My favorite kind of weather is what I call “sweater weather.”  That is the kind of weather that requires a sweater outdoors with cooler nights that require a warm comforter on the bed.  It is good for a fire in the fire place with hot chocolate or mocha coffee on the side table.  I much prefer cool to warm or not.  I do notice the cold more now than when I was younger, so  you have my permission to tease me if you catch me complaining about the cold this winter.  By the end of February I am longing for some warmer days.  Maybe it is the diversity of climate that appeals to me.  I like the variety we get to experience.  Extreme cold or extreme  heat proves tiresome over long periods, but I am sure that I would not like 365 days at 72 degrees.  Give me some variety.  Of course I prefer that variety on my time table and schedule.  I like variety in other things.  I like it in my reading material.  I like it in my foods.  I like it in my clothing.  I have trouble answering the question: “What is your favorite...?”  I never know what to say on those rare occasions when someone in the family asks:  “What do you want sung at your funeral service?”  I can think of thirty options which doesn’t match my goal of a short funeral service.  So whatever is chosen , sing loudly enough that hopefully I can hear it in heaven.  Perhaps this desire for variety is one of the reasons that I like so many different kinds of people.  There is such a variety in the human race.  The more I get to know people, the more I see that makes them worth knowing.  Even when there are tensions in relationships, I often think that if I knew the other better I would probably find things to like about them.  It has happened so often to me that I have come to expect that I will ultimately like the people I meet.  Now this is far below the standard that God practices - who loves all in a wonderful self - giving way, but is at least a small movement in that direction.