Ecclesiastes 12:12 says, “Of the making of many books there is no end, & much study is a weariness of the flesh.” Students are often aware of how weary they get just with studying; the list that professors demand for their classes can seem endless. Few stop to think about how many books are published each year; estimates indicate approximately 2.2 million new titles annually! It is even more daunting to imagine how many “books” have been penned since humankind began to write. Many of those were not adequately preserved. We know of many lost books. The evidence suggests many more we do not even have a title or reference about, which leaves us to wonder…the great library of Alexandria, Egypt, perished by fire while still in ancient times with a great loss of ancient books. Some of us know the frustration of just trying to find an out-of-print book whose title & author we know. Even the Bible mentions books that we know nothing about. We may well have lost some treasures through the centuries. Hopefully, the best survived. What is certain is that too much now exists to ever read them all. Even with a more restricted list confined to a smaller field, no one is full up-to-date in any major field. The question, “Have you read…?” is most often answered with a no, or not yet. My list of yet unread books grows longer every day, even in the areas where I have the most interest. I read fast but there are only so many hours in the day even if I could devote every waking moment just to reading! I have read the Bible many times in my life and I still find new insight with each re-reading. Perhaps the best strategy is to read for quality not quantity, and for that I think the Bible is best.
04/07/2024
When Sue and I got married, the presiding minister Howard Miller (Sue’s uncle), encouraged us to use the traditional Anglican vows for our ceremony. At first, they seemed a bit antiquated, but as we studied them with some small adjustment so that we each spoke the same vows, we found them to be quite meaningful. I will admit I had to look up what it meant to “plithe thee my troth.” We promised to love, honor, and keep each other in sickness and health, for richer for poorer, and to each “keep me unto thee for as long as we both shall live.” We meant these ancient vows then as young people and we mean them now as older adults. That does not mean that there have been no struggles to keep these vows. Like all couples, we have had to overcome obstacles, and had to learn to listen and even forgive. None the less, love has grown through these 56 years of marriage. If we are fortunate, we learn that love is about more than attraction or feelings, however good they may be. It is about commitment. It is about how we act toward each other in marriage, in church, in the world around us. How we act in all our relationships is the most dependable measure of love. The letter of I John understood this deeply. Love is one of its most important themes. It’s words still ring true as it talks about what true love really is in all the aspects. So it speaks, “Little children, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves is born of God and knows God.” I John 4:7
03/31/2024
Today is the premium day in the Christian calendar. This day is the celebration of Jesus Christ’s resurrection. It was the final vindication of his birth, his teaching, has miracles, his death on the cross. It was the first fruit of the resurrection that all his followers will share. In his death we all died and in his resurrection, we are all made alive now and forevermore.
Eastern orthodox tradition celebrates Easter morning on another calendar day, but the joy is the same. We often celebrate with breakfast together and then worship in grand and glorious fashion on Sunday morning. We may not rise as early as those women who came to care for His body and instead, experienced the living Lord. It may be a bit harder for us to experience that surprising moment and its accompanying joyous delight, but perhaps in the midst of the soaring hymns and scriptures we can still feel the joy and surprise of Easter morning.
The lost has been found, the deceased has been made alive by the grace and power of the loving Father God, tending like a mother hen over his baby boy. He is alive! Death could not hold him! Hate could not overcome him! Darkness could not extinguish his light! He is the light of the world, the firstborn of his daughters and sons! He is alive and present this happy Easter morning! “Christ the Lord is risen! He is risen indeed!”
03/24/2024
In 1944 Singspiration Music published a gospel song by Ruth Caye Jones called “In Times Like These.” The first verse reads as follows: “In times like these you need a Savior, In times like these you need an anchor; Be very sure, be very sure, Your anchor holds and grips the solid rock! This rock is Jesus, Yes, He’s the one. This rock is Jesus, The only one! Be very sure your anchor holds and grips the solid rock.” World War II was on everyone’s mind in 1944 with lingering fear and anxiety. In times of fear and crisis we hold fast to our faith and our faith holds fast to us. Now, 80 years later, this feels again like one of those times. It is our hope and prayer that whatever our nation faces, we will stay anchored in our faith. “The storms may roar about us, our hearts may low be laid, but God is round about us and can we be dismayed?” The dangers we face now from the turmoil of our world are real and we must take wise precautions, but we do not live in fear. We will protect the most vulnerable around us. We will be loving, generous, and unselfish because this is who we are called to be as God’s people. In our own small and simple ways together we will be God’s faithful people. When we cannot hold each other’s hands in prayer we will still, in our minds and hearts, hold each other close in our prayers and love. You are loved today! Don’t ever forget that!
03/17/2024
Among the wonderful pleasures of life is a good night’s sleep. As we age, sometimes good sleep may be more difficult to obtain. We may have aches and pains that may make it difficult to fall asleep, or those pains may wake us up before we are truly finished with our needed sleep. We may have worries about finances or health. We may be burdened for friends and relatives. The national and world conditions may worry us, especially when we feel helpless to ameliorate them. If we are caregivers, we may sleep lightly, listening for a loved one, child or adult. After all, the original baby monitor was labeled, “Mom and Dad.” Even useful medications may affect our sleep. Some people even find it hard to sleep when they are physically or mentally exhausted. It must be a widespread problem, because I see on news feeds online multiple articles about how to get a good night’s sleep. Some of the techniques suggested seem very workable. I have been told (probably by easy sleepers), “just trust the Lord and your worries will vanish.” That has not been my experience, but at times praying in the dark of night, I have felt the presence of the Lord. While that didn’t make the worries vanish, I did find comfort in the presence of the Lord, and at times could even drift off in sleep like a restless child comforted by a loving parent’s hand. The Psalmist writes “…He gives sleep to his beloved.” (Psalm 127:2) and again “Rest in the Lord and wait patiently for Him.” (Psalm 37:7) May all of us find sleep and rest in the Lord.
03/10/2024
Recently, while looking at prices for grocery delivery, as recommended by my ever-vigilant daughter, I noticed a category in one service called “essential groceries.” I wondered what I would put in a list of essential groceries for our now small family. Would the list be different than a list when we had children at home? Would it differ from other older couples near us? Would it match my adult children and grandchildren?
How would my list compare with what my ancestors (immediate and long ago) would have thought to be necessary? Could I live on rice and beans alone, or would other items be “necessary” or “essential?” How would l create a sensible list in the midst of thousands of choices of fresh and preserved products? Food preppers warn against lists so restrictive that no one will eat them no matter what the situation demands.
Beyond just food, what else is “essential” for human life? Are all the needs physiological or are there emotional, intellectual, and even spiritual needs for life? It appears that there are ordinary people who do not think that God is necessary or essential for their lives. This seems strange to me because it seems very important to have a meaningful relationship with God. I can’t imagine facing life without the sense of God’s compassionate care being part of my life. I do know that not everyone feels as I do. I am not inclined to ridicule them or even doubt the validity of their feelings. For me, however, too much would be missing without God in my life.
So for me, a meaningful relationship with God would be a first category in my list of what is essential for life. After that, the other parts of the list might be more flexible. How about you?
03/03/2024
We just now have the new copies of our Church Directory. Hope all of your information is correct and up-to-date. It is always nice to look in a directory and find your name there among friends.
Remember high school and college yearbooks? I wonder if they are still popular with pictures so available on smart phones. We have Anderson college yearbooks from Sue’s parents. It is fun to see how they looked back in those earlier days. We also enjoy seeing their fellow students. Many of those grew older as leaders in the church who we knew and respected. It is amazing to see them as fresh young college students.
Now that we are older, we look at our college yearbooks and are surprised at our own pictures. Did we ever really look that young? The pictures bring back memories, some painful, but mostly pleasant. It is with nostalgia that we are gripped, as we examine them. There are names that provoke memories of people we have not seen for so many years.
Scripture has reference to having one’s name in the Lamb’s Book of Life. God always remembers our name, but there is something quite comforting in knowing that our names are recorded. The symbolism of that I find quite inspiring. An old gospel hymn has it thus, “My name is in the Book of Life; O, bless the name of Jesus! I rise above all doubt and strife, and read my title clear. I know, I know my name is there. I know, I truly know my name is written there.”
02/25/2024
One of the startling parts of growing older is the number of doctors that my wife and I see, and the subsequent number of appointments which that entails. It almost seems as if we have a new doctor for each part of our bodies. I have even wondered it I should check what body part does not have a specific doctor and go ahead and schedule one before it becomes inevitable. I can well remember when an annual appointment was more than what was needed.
A long-term physician, now retired, quipped recently when I saw him at a golf course, “Well, I kept you alive to 78.” He was joking, but there is much truth in his quip. I owe a lot to modern medicine and the doctors, nurses, and others who have watched over my health for these many years. While some of my forebearers lived even longer than I have so far, others passed away far younger than I. While some of my life health is the result of good genes, other parts I owe to good health care from my many physicians over the years. They had a tough job since I did not always follow their good advice. Even when I did not listen, they kept working for my good and challenging the places where I needed to improve.
We are all fortunate to live in a time where medical knowledge and practice are well-developed. New discoveries, treatments, and medicines are always on the front line. I am grateful for all of them. Many of my doctors have been persons of faith and that has been meaningful to me, but all of them seem to me to be servants of God’s care and healing, and I thank God for them.
02/18/2024
This is the first time in my memory that Ash Wednesday and Valentine’s Day have fallen on the same date. I am sure that has happened before in my lifetime, but I have no memory of it. A holiday which we often think of as focused on friendship and romantic love seems a rather stark contrast to a day focused on repentance and deeper faith in God. Valentine’s Day is nearly completely secularized in our time, although it originally had a religious background. Cynics have even suggested that it serves the purposes of increasing card manufacturing and candy production. Boyfriends and husbands can be frustrated by trying to figure out what to do for their beloved, and school children fret about getting enough valentines or are embarrassed about the whole event. Ash Wednesday has a clearer purpose. It is not a one-day event, but the beginning of a six-week quest to draw closer to God. It involves a turning toward God and an emphasis on our relationship to the Divine One, prompting repentance and sober reflection. It is the beginning of the journey to Easter, the supreme day in the Christian calendar. It is a time of prayer and meditation, with significant self-reflection. It begins with self-examination and facing the best and the worst in us under the loving mercy of God, but ends in the joy and new life in celebration of the Resurrection on glorious Easter Day. One celebrates friendship and love between human beings and the other, the eternal love of God who created us all.
02/11/2024
This week as I was working in the office, I thought about how good it is to have work that I enjoy, and that I feel makes a contribution to those I care about, especially in family, church, and even at times in the larger world. Recently I read of some speculation that eventually everyone might be given a “salary” without actually having a job. I’m not at all sure that such a thing would be good, especially if there was no meaningful work to put one’s hands and mind to. The meaning of life is certainly more than a job, but there is real significance in work. The satisfaction which comes with a task well-accomplished is like few other rewards. We were not meant to be idle You remember the old adage “an idle mind is the Devil’s playground.” Within reasonable limits, my busiest times have often been when I was most organized and most successful. Coming into the office to study, write, and think are among the delights of my life. Life would seem less full and real without them. Sometimes the study at home and in the office have brought new insight and an increased awareness of God. In many ways a study can become a spiritual altar erected for divine purpose. Work, in general, if rightly conceived, may itself become a form of worship of the Creator who is always at work. I am so thankful that God has allowed me meaningful work. It has made my life rich far beyond any salary that I have ever received.
02/04/2024
In 1697, William Congreve wrote in a play called The Mourning Bride, “Musick hath charms to soothe a savage beast…” The phrase has remained in use even though the play has long been forgotten. Whatever Congreve intended by the phrase, it has long been used to indicate the calming effect of music on troubled minds & hearts. Recently a friend shared an article with me about the use of music as therapy for those with dementia. This was very timely due to my wife Sue’s recent struggles. We have arranged through Compassion, a hospice company, for Sue to have music therapy. We had our first visit recently. The visit was quite helpful. The therapist, a young woman with a sweet voice & gentle manner, brought her guitar and played and sang to Sue. The interaction between the two was quite lovely. For about 45 minutes, there were hymns, pop songs & old favorites that Sue recognized. Her responses & the calmness on her face reflected her pleasure at the songs. Sue often closed her eyes & let the music flow over her. After the therapist left, we talked & Sue was quite glad to know that the Music Therapist would be back at least every other week. I was amazed at how responsive Sue was to the visit. Her countenance was brighter & her communication clearer & more to the point for a while afterward. Sue’s heart could hardly be called savage unless she was defending children or those in any way abused, but the calming effect of the music was very obvious to me. It is amazing how music evokes in each of us memories that we treasure. The last thing that Jesus & his disciples did before they went out to the Garden of Gethsemane to pray was to sing a hymn together.
01/28/2024
Many years ago, Charles Darwin championed the idea of “the survival of the fittest,” to explain the changes he observed in the animal kingdom. The central idea was based on a competitive model of nature & even human life. The idea gained popularity in science and in the public mind. Along the way, another model of survival & change was based on a cooperative model. Symbiotic relations & social cooperation were proposed as an alternative way to think about survival. Organisms develop cooperative relations, & so, survive more effectively. I’m not sure which is the most accurate theory; perhaps each has its place. Our bodies work because all the parts work in harmony. When the body attacks itself, disaster follows. Lack of cooperation in a team sport seems a sure path to defeat, but a lack of competitiveness also leads to failure. In our larger world, cooperation seems to occur far too seldom. For every advancement prompted by competition, there are other advancements that are the result of cooperation. Perhaps a mixed system that uses both competition & cooperation could prove most effective. How about churches – can we see ourselves as in competition with each other in helpful ways so that different needs and desires can be met in our varied world, and/or can we find ways to cooperate with each other, that the needs of a difficult world can be better met? What good things might we do apart & what good things might we do together, to glorify our creator? To God be the glory, now & always!
01/14/2024
The Blue Zones are five regions of the world that are known for having people who live to exceptionally old age. The National Geographic Society sponsored Dan Buettner to study what those zones had in common. He discovered nine commonalities:
1. They move naturally in their daily life & work.
2. They have a sense of purpose for their lives.
3. They have routines that lower their stress.
4. They eat only until they are 80% full.
5. Their diets are largely plant-based with only occasional eating of meat or fish.
6. Most of them drink wine, but in limited amounts.
7. They belong to a faith-based community & worship regularly.
8. They are highly committed to family.
9. They live close to others with healthy lifestyles.
Many of these characteristics seem like common sense, but few of them fit current American lifestyle. One Blue Zone area does not drink alcohol at all, but otherwise the nine characteristics, while differently expressed, bear out in each case. Long life is not the only value in life, but it is something to be appreciated.
Length of life may not be as important as quality of life. A life of true service is worthy, even when its duration is short. What Jesus accomplished in his 33 years shows that to be true. Even so, given the choice, most of us would prefer a long life provided that life is healthy and purposeful. When it is so, it is a blessing from God.
01/07/2023
Over twenty years ago, National Geographic, with a grant from the National Institute on Aging, sponsored Dan Buettner to study cultures who had exceptionally long-lived people. Many in these areas lived to be 100 years of age, far beyond the proportions of 100-year-olds in the general population. Five areas from around the world were chosen for study. They were Sardinia, Italy; the Nicoya Peninsula of Costa Rica; Okinawa, Japan; Loma Linda, California; and Ikaria, Greece. These each fit the category of exceptionally long-lived people.
The goal of the study was to see if there were common elements in these areas that might explain the phenomenon. Early studies had concluded that only a small part of aging was genetic in origin. The fact that these regions were found in various parts of the world and in different cultures made the study broad-based and less culturally fixed in one part of the world.
The five areas were designated Blue Zones as a way of identifying the areas included in the study. In spite of many differences, nine common characteristics emerged in the zones. Next week, I will outline those nine characteristics for you all.
You might be interested in one characteristic that they all shared. The majority, by a huge percentage, belonged to some faith-based community. Denomination didn’t seem to matter, but faith-based services four times per month were projected to add four to fourteen years to life expectancy! The many long-lived people in our congregation may have encouraged us to believe the projection. We have many who have exceeded “three score and ten and by reason of strength, four score.” While longer life is not the only measure, it is usually a blessing from God in which we can rejoice.
12/31/2023
I confess that I don’t think of New Year’s Eve as a religious holiday. If you do, I am glad for your spiritual insight. I suppose I could think of it like we do of birthdays. As a child, I was always a bit baffled when someone asked, “Do you feel any different being a year older?” I could hear an expectation in the question which I could not answer. I knew a response was expected but as an honest kid, I really didn’t feel any different or older then I did the day before.
I realize the hope inherent in the idea that this is a new year full of possibilities. Maybe the failures of the past year will yield to new triumphs in the new year. However, having started many diet and exercise programs that did not last past the first week in February, I am not overly confident that this coming year will bring perfect solutions. Perhaps the problem is exaggerated expectations. Rather than a lengthy list of New Year’s resolutions, I am more included to say, “Let’s see how this new year works out.”
My optimism gets in the way of my more realistic thinking. Would it be better to choose a small change that we could wholly commit to for the coming year? A young mother was trying to calm her toddler who was having a major meltdown. Another shopper heard her quietly say in a calm voice, “Jennifer, we don’t need to yell, inside voices, just relax, it’s alright.” The stranger commented on how well the mother was calming her daughter Jennifer. “But I’m Jennifer,” the young woman replied. Maybe for this year, I’ll just resolve to be a bit more patient and calm “Jennifer” down.
12/24/2023
It was my father’s tradition to open presents on Christmas Eve. It was also the tradition that the Christmas story and prayers were shared before any presents were opened. While I loved the Christmas story, I still felt a bit impatient to get on with the presents, especially if the prayers were long. My father maintained that from a very young age I could quote from memory the Christmas account while pretending to read it from the Book. I do not remember that ability, but I do know the story fascinated me. Reading the Christmas story before opening gifts was (I am sure) my father’s attempt to keep the Christmas focus on Jesus’ birth rather than the gifts and wrappings. I guess to an extent it worked. We still wish to be sure our focus is on the meanings behind the pageantry, but we all know the joy of giving and receiving.
Would Christmas be more meaningful if we eliminated the gifts? I don’t think so. God’s great gift of his Son rightfully inspires us to give to those we love and beyond, to the world in need. Because we have been given much, we too must give. Anything less feels less than grateful. The best gifts are those which involve giving a bit of ourselves along with the object we wrap in pretty sparkling paper. Handmade gifts, thoughtful gifts, gifts with attached memories are the best. They may be inexpensive or quite expensive. What really matters is their intent and thoughtful connection. Did the gift we gave really express the love we wish to express? Is it in some small, limited way the same kind of love that God expressed in sending his own to be one with us?
12/17/2023
Did you hear about the couple who had been married so long that they were on their fifth bottle of Tabasco sauce? Time quickly seems to get away from us. Unnoticed, the years begin to pile up until those behind us are far beyond the years before us. Considered in the light of eternity all our long years of life are like a vapor swept aside by the breeze. Still as we measure the time ahead of us we wish each moment to still be weighty. Can the future be full of goodness and joy even if the changes of life offer new challenges which we did not anticipate? The most perfect-seeming life can be invaded by unexpected turmoil, but with help from God we may still find rest for our souls. In times past we gathered resources to face our present challenges. We may be tempted to rage at the dimming of the light or we can remember that when we can’t clearly see the road ahead, there is One who holds our hand & leads us out of the darkness into the light. Christ is our light & his glory will shine in us no matter how difficult the way. Part of my growing-up years were spent in mountain country. I remember seeing beautiful sunsets in those years, but what I remember most fondly were sunrises. After the deep darkness the sun began to peek over the mountains lighting up the sandstone peaks in oranges and reds above the deep purples of the valleys. No matter how dark the night had been, I felt a surge of joy at the coming of sunlight with every moment growing brighter & sparkling off the rocks and streams. Even now, if the darkness seems especially heavy I know that just over the mountaintop the sun is coming up & everything will
again be bright.
12/10/2023
What was the most memorable gift you ever received on Christmas? Was it a perfectly wonderful present or an unmitigated disaster? I have had some of each. When I was still in elementary school, all my family met at our grandparents’ on one side of my family. All the cousins, aunts, and uncles were included. With a large gathering we chose names ahead of time to limit the expense but the gifts were always nice. We also had stockings with simple gifts inside. We opened the stockings first. Someone thought it would be funny to put a lump of coal in my stocking. The effect on me as a child was devastating. All the rest of my gifts were very good, but I could hardly even see them. Had I really been such a bad boy to deserve a lump of coal? Even at my advanced age, I still remember the event although I now see it from a different perspective. On balance, in my life, I have never had anything but lovely Christmas gifts, often far better than I even hoped for. It is interesting that all those memorable gifts were so much better, yet it is that one small joke that still sticks in my memory. It is a good example of how the negative seems to attract our notice more than the overwhelming positive every day. This may explain the bad news which is the center of much contemporary reporting. In contrast, the Gospel of Christ is the good news of God sending his Son to us. So, let’s leave behind the bad news or at least keep it in perspective, as we day by day experience the blessings of God’s Good News, the Gospel of Jesus Christ our Lord.
12/03/2023
In an earlier era, little boys were often dressed in short pants even for formal occasions. One can see that tradition in some of the formal pictures of the British Royal family. That tradition is mostly missing in modern life. For little boys in an earlier time, the transition from short pants to long pants marked a new level of maturity for your boys. Now days one can see eighty-year-old men in short pants (we just call them “shorts”), and while they may show knobby knees and paler skin, they say nothing about maturity. The question might be, are there any marks of maturity in our world? We have all known young people who are remarkably mature for their age and may have known elderly people who are still rather emotionally immature.
Paul says, “When I was child, I spoke as a child, I thought as a child, but when I became a man I put away childish ways” (paraphrased). That should be the norm, one would think, but not everyone matches the norm.
How would Christian maturity differ from the maturity that the world expects? What would be the observable marks? If asked, would family and friends observe marks of our Christian maturity? It is a Christian goal to stay childlike, but not childish. We need to be mature enough to go deeper into the faith and into our relationship with God without losing our childlike joy and delight.
11/26/2023
Due to the appropriate and poignant content of the article, the Pastor’s Notes from November 27, 2022, is being republished today.
“It always comes as a surprise that the Advent season comes at the end of November. It seems like it should all be in December, but here it is “early” every year. (Today is the Sunday before Advent begins on December 3, 2023, so we even have a skip week in between this year to prepare our hearts and minds for the celebration of Advent.)
Advent is the season of anticipation as we focus on the coming of the Messiah. It would be easy for this rushed season to be the season of anxiety rather than the season of anticipation. So let’s corporately take a deep breath and try to relax. Focus our attention on anticipation and preparation for the coming of Christ. I know there are so many things to accomplish, so many traditions to honor, so many people to care for, but can we just put down enough of the season’s birthday to experience the hope, joy, love, and peace that the season beckons us toward?
We not only need to keep Christ in the season, but keep ourselves in it as well. There is much good that we plan to do, but the best we can do is to welcome Jesus home in our hearts.”